Our seating plans always place couples together. On your first adventure with shared sexual experiences, you may feel uneasy about seeing your partner with someone else. Everyone has their own reasons for their feelings and all feelings should be respected. To avoid embarrassment or disillusionment, discuss any inhibitions with your partner beforehand. We suggest you stay together until you feel comfortable about being apart, but don't cling to one another. If there is general disrobing, dress down to lingerie or go nude yourself. Though you may remain fully clothed, being more revealing will help you to become more involved. Some exposure will be socially more agreeable to other guests. Do not allow yourself to harbour feelings of inadequacy, jealousy etc. Do not berate your partner. Be open with each other. Do ask questions about encounters of other Rude Food guests.

We're all interested in new people and are generally eager to answer questions about shared experiences. Don't question other guests about their jobs or identity, they may mistake you for a journalist and ask us to throw you out. Please leave your inhibitions at home. Sexual and social inhibitions will most likely interfere with your pleasure. The more you put into a Rude Food Dinner Party the more you will get out if it.

• Dinners without any theme except very erotic clothing and delicious food.
• Lingerie party, guys and girls start off down to frilly basics.
• Black tie & posh frocks, formal and very sexy.
• Night wear night, just arrive, slip on your nightie and dreams come true.
• Rocky Horror, a TV dinner for all, try it, you might like it, just for fun.
• Strict dress for strict diners, leather, rubber, PVC or lingerie.

As a guest you may dress and behave as rude as you like. The more sexy your dress, the more fun you will have. Rude Food has been described as four hours of fore play. Sexual encounters may take place from the moment you arrive and throughout the dinner. Sex is no longer an after dinner activity!

As in any social activity, there are expected rules of conduct. Following the rules is an effect way to make yourself welcome within our community. Use your common sense and good manners. Above all be gentle. A gentle touch is essential, being rough could end your invitations and certainly will not endear people to you. The golden rule in collective erotic encounters is the right to say 'No' to anyone at any time. It should be done with a simple 'No thank you'. Never give an explanation, because that is what causes the problems and pain and is not necessary; improper handling of a situation can lead to a lot of hurt or bad feeling.

Be responsible, friendly and good-natured. A smile invites social contact. Freshly showered, perfumed and sexily dressed people make the most contacts. Making friends is the key to getting most out of your membership. Do tell people if you are new to this kind of experience. Please be assured no one will insist you run around naked. Your enjoyment will require some sort of effort on your part. Good communication skills are much more important than sexual prowess. Take time to find out about other people's desires and don't be afraid to explore your fantasies. Covering your partner in food and wine is quite acceptable.

We must have completed applications with photographs so that we recognise you on arrival. Dinner must be paid for in advance. A dinner party costs about £120.00 per couple and an overnight stay with breakfast in Shropshire is available for an extra £40.00 per couple space permitting. The shared cost covers, food, wine and advertising for stylish couples to join you. We are not in business and all your money goes on making this the best possible evening.