Rules are few, be nice to us and our guests, no press and no photographs. You will enjoy your evening without the pressure to go beyond your own boundary. Please agree with your partner before you join us. Couples are seated together. Play with your partner and the guest next to you while you dine. Move around to enjoy other guests. At all times a polite 'no thank you', means no.

As in any social activity, there are expected rules of conduct. Following the rules is an effective way to make yourself welcome within our community. Use your common sense and good manners. Above all be gentle. A gentle touch is essential, being rough could end your invitations and certainly will not endear people to you. The golden rule in collective erotic encounters is the right to say 'No' to anyone at any time. It should be done with a simple 'No thank you'. Never give an explanation, because that is what causes the problems and pain and is not necessary; improper handling of a situation can lead to a lot of hurt or bad feeling.

The only kind of sexual encounter permitted is 'consenting, between adults'. You and your partner may want to discuss in advance your preferences. Will you stay together all the time?. How far are you happy to go?. What are your feelings about bisexuality?. You may have personal restrictions you'd like to have honoured. It is important that you be honest with your partner and makes any anxieties known. Establish your own ground rules, but please decide on them BEFORE you come to dinner.

Be responsible, friendly and good-natured. A smile invites social contact. Freshly showered, perfumed and sexily dressed people make the most contacts. Making friends is the key to getting most out of your membership. Do tell people if you are new to this kind of experience. Please be assured no one will insist you run around naked. Your enjoyment will require some sort of effort on your part. Good communication skills are much more important than sexual prowess. Take time to find out about other people's desires and don't be afraid to explore your fantasies. Covering your partner in food and wine is quite acceptable.