We are Jeff and Cathy, we run Rude Food Dining Club. Couples new to shared erotic encounters may be at a loss as to how to fit in and may be nervous. This is common and quite natural. It is our responsibility to acquaint you with structure of our dinner party. You will also be introduced to other guests.
The only kind of sexual encounter permitted is 'consenting, between adults'. You and your partner may want to discuss in advance your preferences. Will you stay together all the time?. How far are you happy to go?. What are your feelings about bisexuality?. You may have personal restrictions you'd like to have honoured. It is important that you be honest with your partner and makes any anxieties known. Establish your own ground rules, but please decide on them BEFORE you come to dinner.
Our seating plans always place couples together. On your first adventure with shared sexual experiences, you may feel uneasy about seeing your partner with someone else. Everyone has their own reasons for their feelings and all feelings should be respected. To avoid embarrassment or disillusionment, discuss any inhibitions with your partner beforehand. We suggest you stay together until you feel comfortable about being apart, but don't cling to one another. If there is general disrobing, dress down to lingerie or go nude yourself. Though you may remain fully clothed, being more revealing will help you to become more involved. Some exposure will be socially more agreeable to other guests. Do not allow yourself to harbour feelings of inadequacy, jealousy etc. Do not berate your partner. Be open with each other. Do ask questions about encounters of other Rude Food guests. We're all interested in new people and are generally eager to answer questions about shared experiences. Don't question other guests about their jobs or identity, they may mistake you for a journalist and ask us to throw you out. Please leave your inhibitions at home. Sexual and social inhibitions will most likely interfere with your pleasure. You can't expect to get much out of a Rude Food Dinner Party if you are unwilling to put much into it.
Be responsible, friendly and good-natured. A smile invites social contact. Freshly showered, perfumed and sexily dressed people make the most contacts. Making friends is the key to getting most out of your membership. Do tell people if you are new to this kind of experience. Please be assured no one will insist you run around naked. Your enjoyment will require some sort of effort on your part. Good communication skills are much more important than sexual prowess. Take time to find out about other people's desires and don't be afraid to explore your fantasies. Covering your partner in food and wine is quite acceptable.
As in any social activity, there are expected rules of conduct. Following the rules is an effect way to make yourself welcome within our community. Use your common sense and good manners. Above all be gentle. A gentle touch is essential, being rough could end your invitations and certainly will not endear people to you. The golden rule in collective erotic encounters is the right to say 'No' to anyone at any time. It should be done with a simple 'No thank you'. Never give an explanation, because that is what causes the problems and pain and is not necessary; improper handling of a situation can lead to a lot of hurt or bad feeling.
If a dinner party has a dress code, it is important to comply, change on arrival if you like. If there is no stated dress code, ladies should be as inventive as possible. Lingerie looks great at the table, see through, or unbuttoned jackets without anything underneath are very exciting. A business suit is not really appropriate for men, but a really nice shirt can look very sexy, even only a shirt is acceptable. Regard Rude Food as an extension to your social and sexual play, an opportunity to extend your boundary, try something new or show everyone just what a sexy couple you can be. Above all, it's just for fun, so join us and enjoy.
